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How To Crush it- 3 Simple Steps

 

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The Elixir of Success

Did you ever wonder how successful people crush it in their respective fields?  it’s one word: Confidence.

Let me share with you ,How to develop confidence in 3 easy simple steps?

Doubt is the enemy of progress. Many entrepreneurs, business people, or couples fail because of the lack of this elixir: confidence?

What is confidence?  it’s generally described as a state of being certain about something!!

Let’s dive in. confidence stems from Latin confide-re-  meaning  “with FAITH“. it’s basically people moving forward with FAITH.

Faith as in, standing for a firm BELIEF in oneself, to carry out; Belief in one’s abilities to perform an activity comes through successful experience.

How can we develop that belief if we’ve never done that business, or never been in a similar situation?

Well 3 easy simple steps.

The first step is to be believe in one self ability, to achieve the object of the definite goal or purpose we had set. which means  you NEED CLARITY in what your definite purpose is. this is so simple, but that many neglect it and it slips away their fingers. Having that clarity will help the mind  to settle and be directed. Having no clarity is like being in fog;which increase the fuzzy state . SO PLEASE DEVELOP THAT CLARITY of YOUR PURPOSE. after that clarity is set, the way to develop a firm belief about that goal is to repeat it as often as possible in our daily routines so that i can be ingrained in our subconscious.

That’s the second step, repetition of the purpose, of who you want to be, or what you want to have. create a ritual or set of practices that make that purpose “actual” and real. You could write it everyday as an affirmation. You could visualize it?  Bottom line is you need to familiarize and bombard your subconscious mind so that’s it build neural networks relative to the goal. As we’ve seen in earlier blog; that will create and cause your reticular activating system (RAS- in neuroscience) to pay attention to your purpose.

The last step is to indulge yourself with the emotion and the feeling of having that goal. or being that person.

That last step is so important that many people miss it.The subconscious language is FEELING and EMOTION or PICTURE.

So even if it seems “corny” , add the feeling to your purpose. In fact, I like to describe a belief as “frozen” feeling.  Feeling is fluid like water , but a belief is stamped in your neural network.  That’s why the way beliefs are developed are two ways- either significant emotional events or through conditioning(which is like building muscle as we create neural pathway).

So As you can see these are skills that can be develop in any area . And yes people with experience in one area have develop these because  inherently they have gone through the 3 steps maybe many times, in one way, shape  or form. Isn’t why experience is so valued? Because people with experience in their field have  CONFIDENCE. and with confidence our ability to produce and carry out result increases. So if you think about it, when you hire, or want to carry out any future outcome. What you are looking for is NOT EXPERIENCE, BUT  CONFIDENCE.

if that is case, it;’s important to examine all  major areas of our life(business, relationship, health, family, finance, career, emotional etc..) and measure our confidence levels from 0-10.

If it’s below a 7-it needs some work and focus…

The good news  is it’s a skill than can learn and is teachable…

Let’s go do it!!

Live your Power, with purpose and passion

Cheers.

 

 

 

How to Lead with Impact using the Quantum Do™

How to deliberately create an impact, freedom, legacy and wealth?

This has been a perennial question if you are an entrepreneur or a leader.

It certainly has been mine for almost 2 decades.

What I found is encapsulated in the Quantum Do™, which is the cardinal of deliberate transformation and leadership.

As we discussed in a previous podcast and blog post. The first steps in deliberate creation is awareness first, and of course Intention. Those two steps well defined is the “Empower” stage where the goal as a leader to be rooted. That rootedness gives strength as it ultimate outcome is Clarity. No clarity, no deliberate growth, No change.

The second stage of the Quantum Do™, framework is to inspire. “Inspire” from Latin roots means breathe life into. At this stage of transformation as entrepreneur or leader, our role is to hold our attention. Holding our attention and not let distraction or wind sway us from what our vision is.

From the Clarity developed in the first stage, the second stage allow us to be inspired and be connected with our environment, our community, or our team. When we breathe life into our ideas, our leadership becomes intrinsic leadership so that we can start moving element around us. With that vision as the outcome in stage 2, we start activating the transformation process…

Finally what is left is natural process, which is to “Resonate” and to vibrate with clarity and that vision we have been inspired with. The last step of the Quantum Do, is accomplished through action. Ultimately the dance between Actions and our vibration is the focus we get as an outcome.

That’s right the Quantum Do, is this easy three 3 steps that is the canon of deliberate transformation and leadership.

In fact that structure is found in transformation phases.

How can an entrepreneur or leader utilize this framework?

Quite simple 3 easy steps. As would say Brendon Burchard “common sense is not common practice.”

That couldn’t be truer in the Quantum Do™ framework.

It’s all about first being a student of it, which I think, using this will empower to have the impact you want to have. At a high level. Now there are different modalities about “how” to go about these steps.

Well What I’m excited about is that the Quantum Do™, is found at many level.

I would love to share about it in the coming weeks.

If you found this interesting, let me know your comments.

Till next time..

Live your power with purpose and passion

Master Your Emotions!!!

Master Your Emotions!!!

You are the source of all your emotions!! Not the events, Not the circumstances, not your spouse, not your manager, not that person you have always talked about!! you are the source of your emotions!!You are the ones who creates them!!

Indeed we are always waiting for the right person, or the right situation to come along before we feel the joy, the happiness!! But who’s to decide and dictate when to feel good? I always like to ask some of my clients this “stupid” question.. let me aks you that question as well.. Do you need someone permission before you laugh?

The answer seems obvious isn’t?  Well  similarly, why would you need a particular person, or event to feel good?

The answer is simple, we’ve created RULES, Triggers(or ANCHORS), that control the way we feel.

If you want to learn more about that, please check previous podcast or blog posting where I discuss in details how to master these elements!!

The beauty of this is the target emotional application, or emotional targeting. which is the “premeditated” way of feeling what we want to feel. If you master this , you master your emotions and you master your life!!!!

Listen to the podcast for more details!!Exciting  informations!!

Till next time, Live your power with purpose and passion

What trigger us to feel a specific way?

In the previous post we discussed what an emotional target is.

The emotional target is a systemic approach and way that allow you to “feel” a specific desire emotion at any given time.

here we’ l l discuss about ANCHOR!!

The idea is to systemically build it into our nervous system so we can trigger it at will.It seems lunatic isn’t it?

But it’s not!! Follow me here for a second. In previous posting we discussed how the brain does 3 things because of the Excessive amount of data we receive on a daily basis. The brain Delete, Distort or Generalize information in order to be able to handle the 2 billion of data per second it’s bombarded by.

Part of the “optimization” done by our brain is to simplify so it can be effective and efficient, so it classifies.

So an anchor is a trigger which is based on a link between a specific stimulus and a response or state.It’s basically a neurological association.The most famous example of anchoring is described in the experiments of Ivan Pavlov. Every time he fed his dog, he simulteaously rang a bell or a tuning fork, and that time his dog would salivate and be excited… he did the experiment many times…

And then even when there was no food, but he would ring that bell, the dog would salivate!!==> ringing the bell was the anchor

Basically, Anchoring is the process of creating neurological associations by applying a specific stimulus to one or more of the five senses while the person is in an associated, heightened state.

So Anchoring gives quick access to any past emotional state, so that someone can experience that state at any time that they choose.

We can also have unconscious anchor in our lives during which a particular stimulus is either intense, or repetitive or both in a way;

Most of the time anchors are created in two ways.

Intensity of a state – As an individual is in a heightened emotional state while a specific stimulus is experienced, the two become linked.

Repetition of a stimulus over many hours or days. When a particular experience occurs with such

Regularity that the individual links the stimulus automatically to the simultaneously occurring state.

As you can imagine we all have anchors in our lives.

They are all around us; based on your dominant five senses (Kinesthetic, Auditory, Visual, Olfactory, Gustatory), We all have those anchors (listen in the podcast to hear more..

Part of the homework before next week podcast is for you to look at your daily life and find anchor in each 5 sense in your life?

Is it a particular smell? Music? What is it?

Next week will be amazing as we will learn how to that…

Until then, Live your power with purpose and passion

HOW WE FEEL, ROCK OUR WORLD!!!

In this Post, we are continuing on Understanding the Human machine control part 2 theme!!I hope it’s  clear by now that our vibe, or electromagnetic energy that we project is a combination of both what we think/believe and  how we feel.

Let’s start to explore the Emotion landscape.Emotion, is “E”motion indeed, it’s Energy in Motion.

“What is a feeling and an emotion , how is created?  can we control it?

We do our emotions!! emotions don’t happen to us!!

In fact the TRIAD suggested by Tony Robins is a good example to illustrate on how the 3 molders of meaning (Physiology, Language and Focus), Influence and almost determine on a short term how we feel. The state of each of these 3 elements determine our state and how we feel. So if you wan to control how you feel; the easiest way is to change one of these 3 stated above.That’s why for example after working out we feel upbeat or better? or after listening to a song  our physiology change when we start moving and our state changes..

But on a long term it’s our filters and our beliefs.

But let’s look at our emotional state.which is is a physical sensation.

For example let’s stay  the emotion and feeling of “pleasure”; that emotion is triggered by hormones we secret in our body- mostly our organs (in this case in our brain secret dopamine let’s say). Dopamine triggered by neurotransmitter which are in our human lymbic brain. the negro-transmitter are triggered based on the “interpretation/perception of events  in our environment”.

Basically our perception control the  signal that is triggered by our neurotransmitter.

Our perception are determined  by our filters. Part of our filters are determined  by the  meaning we associate to events.

The meaning  and the association we attach to events is the basis of our filters. One of the leading filter is our VALUES.

Our values are being driven by our rules.for example , let’s say friendship is one of your highest value.

When you think about it, each of us have RULES about  for example what friendship means.

So our rules drive how we feel in the long term and consistent basis.So Homework is this:

What are your top 2-3  VALUES and what are your top 2-3 rules around this VALUES. The easiest way to find out about your rules is to ask yourself this question:

“WHAT HAS TO HAPPEN IN ORDER FOR ME TO FEEL FRIENDSHIP WITH SOMEONE?”

I hope you do the homework..these are important  to know yourself so you can transmute your destiny…

Until next time, live your power with passion and purpose

Let me your thoughts and feel free to share..

 

Understanding the Human Control Machine- Part 2!!!!

Anything  Created in our plane and dimension has been created twice and it’s a 3 phase process. The first part  is the inception phase which  involves a moving forward, an expansion motion. Like an arrow, it involves being targeted, it involves having a  direction, being intentional, like  an electric charge  field it directs .For example Chinese tradition called  it YAN-(cf,to yin-yan),  or the male element.it’s the assertive.To be more visual it’s like the arrow, well represented even  in  the  human male  organ of reproduction as in the phallus.

The second  phase after the inception is  the gestation phase.In the gestation phase the  necessary element  in structure and function is the surrender element. The accepting part, the integrative part, like the bow, that part has to relax, to accept , to give in. like the Warrior with the bow which is a flexible arc which shoots aerodynamic projectiles called arrow- the bow has to be supple , open, accepting. in order for the gestation to last, acceptance . That’s the female element- the YIN.

That element in human is OUR EMOTIONS!!!  That’s the feedback  System in the Human control machine. Our body is the vehicle that stores our emotions; which means our body through the use of our nervous  system(which is the bridge between the brain-neural network) capture the emotional field of what we perceive.It’s our magnetic field.

The 3rd phase in the creation is the birth process. Which is manifestation phase. the alignment phase..the coherence and resonance phase.

No need to repeat the energetic nature of our universe, as it’s been demonstrated by quantum  physics;everything resonates and has a vibration. Everything is energy.In fact 99.99%  of the universe is all made of energy. the “material” plane that we perceive is a tiny part of what IS..and even that part is energy vibrating at a slower vibration.

As above so below, so below as above. We are part of this universe and it is clear that we create through our electromagnetic field– Which is combining our filters(thoughts, beliefs) AND our EMOTIONS. Different school of  thoughts have promoted one (BELIEFS )or the other( EMOTIONS). That’s  not accurate. We need both to create and transform. we need our unique ELECTROMAGNETIC signature to match the  vibration of the state,the energy, the frequency of what we want manifested.

In fact anything we want to experience, have, do,  or be in our lives is a feeling and an emotion at the end. The car, the charity, we give, the children we raise, the medal, the trophy. The lasting sensation is who we become in the journey.That emotion/feeling is what we’re after..

Would it makes to understand how to get it? In the next post we’ll discuss about that..

Listen in the podcast to learn more about the homework and the next blog, next week.

Let me me know your thoughts,  and feel  free to subscribe to the podcast as well. on iTunes or stitcher radio..

Until next time, Live your power with purpose and passion

Soul

Understanding the Human Control Machine!!!!

Albert Einstein said “God doesn’t play with Dice” while  looking at  the universe, its pattern and the world. What a statement of profound humility from one of the most respected brain of of human history. In fact He learned enough science to understand the why and much of the how. He could see the consistency and relationship between all things. Thus, to him, nothing was random chance. Truth is absolute and works every time!

As above so below, So below as above… The same wonder and conclusion can be drawn when looking at the human mind.

From a builder/designer perspective, let’s dive into our mind.

When one creates a product (i.e a car, phone, telephone etc..), the creator always ask 3 fundamentals questions: THE WHAT, THE WHY, and the HOW.

Fair  enough our brain is wired that way.

The WHAT-2 States- SURVIVAL or CREATION

Our brain is ALWAYS in one of this binary state. there’s no in between.Indeed we’re either growing or dying.

Dying is restriction, shrinking, constraint, it’s survival. VS. Creation  which is growth, expansion, aliveness, movement .

THE WHY-THE  INTENTION

The revelation here is to understand that no matter what our actions are, every human being has a POSITIVE INTENT. the action or behavior could be damaging to its surrounding, but ultimately, the intent is positive… really? why..

Ultimately, our mind intent is always one these 3 things:

Protect, Prevent or Provide.

Which means when people act they have one these intent(consciously or unconsciously)

THE HOW-THE OPERATION, THE SIMPLIFICATION,THE OPTIMIZATION

As we discussed in the last post (your perceptions create your reality),  our mind is exposed to 2 Millions bit of information each

second; while the brain can process only about 120 bit of information/second. Which means the brain to be optimal operates 3 modes(Delete, Distort or Generalize).

Very fascinating isn’t it ? Nature might not be random after all?

Or is it random?

Before you answer this question, I’m inviting you to look at your daily actions the next seven days(work and domestic environment).

Can you identify 3 behaviors/actions where you apply the WHAT, WHY and the HOW. Even better can you deliberately design patterns?

What do you think?

Listen in the audio for more details!!

Until next time,Live your Power with Purpose and Passion

 

Your Perception Creates Your Reality

In this posting we reviewed the human need psychology(uncovered by Tony Robbins). The idea that  all human have 6 basics need that drive and underline any action or decision we take.

In  summary it’s basically the fact that our  beliefs are related to our emotions and our emotions are based on our physiology, our focus and the meaning we give to events.

Well In this episode, We shared  the fact that Human beings are bombarded with 2 Millions bit of information per second( yes you read read it correctly(2.000.000 bit /sec). In my personal opinion  it’s even more than that, with the new  digital age  and 24 hour cycle of news we live in.

Why is this relevant?

The fact is that Human being can ONLY process on average 120 bit/sec. So what that means for us?

Very simple, it means we don’t and we cannot process ALL the data around us or coming at us at any given moment; therefore our brain has to make sense of this information somehow in order for us to survive and function properly!! yes our brain does three things at any given time.

Our brain Delete information, Distort or Generalize in order for us  to make sense of the info coming at us at any given moment. In neuroscience they call it the R.A.S or the reticular activating system. Basically our brain creates a framework based on our internal filters(beliefs, values, our memories etc….). Have  you ever bought a new car to only notice that in the traffic everybody has that car or you happen to notice more of your car brand , model and style?

Yes it happens to all of us ..it’s your R.A.S at work.. Similarly in our daily lives, any actions, decisions or observations we make is highly FILTERED by our FRAME or our PERCEPTION. This is why when a same event happens, two people have a slightly different interpretation of it.

This is why our perception shapes our reality!!

The second relevance of this is about quantum physics!!! the fact that there are a lot of information  and possibilities out there. And the  fact that the observers  are the ones choosing to bring the reality they “observe”… Which is very exciting if you grasp the two concept discuss here!!

When you listen to the podcast, I’m suggesting for you participate and do a homework.. which will help you to start taking charge of your destiny as what we do is to help people transmute their destiny…

Enjoy the listening and talk to you next time.

Self-knowledge is the beginning of self-improvement

The object of all life is development; and everything that lives has an inalienable right to all development it is capable of attaining. Man’s right to life means his right to have the free and unrestricted use of all things which be necessary to his fullest mental, spiritual and physical unfoldment- Wallace D Wattles.

This statement is so dear to my heart that I believe that you deserve to live your best life.Your Life matters.In order to make your life matter.it’s important to understand yourself. how do you define yourself ?

Let’s pause for a minute? How do you define yourself? A mother? father? a brother,sister, a father, daughter, a friend , doctor? Do you define yourself by your role or by your profession, by your gender? by your race? by your environment? by your hobbies? well it’s very simple, your personality defines your personal reality (as  would say Dr .Joe Dispenza).

Regardless, some people want to have a great romantic relationship.  Others  may want success and results in business.  Some people want to contribute to others.  Some want to be better parents.  There are those that want to be healthy and energetic.  Some may want people want all of this?  What beliefs and emotions are  driving you? our beliefs are related to our emotions and our emotions are based on our physiology, our focus and the meaning we give to events.  Tony Robbins  call it the Triad

In this section and podcast we explore how we’re all  driven by 6 human needs develop and suggested by Tony Robbins.

Transmute Your Destiny!!!

Many people are living stressful and renounced lives. As it is, many people believe they have no power to change the course of their current lives and destiny. Activity without purpose is a drain to a life of fulfillment as would say Tony Robbins. In this introductory session your transformation buddy Soul Ongoiba, shares with you what he believes in and How this podcast can and will help you to Transmute Your Destiny. You can “live your power” with purpose, intention and passion. As it is, you’ll get a chance to meet Soul and understand why he’s passionate about human potential…with his eclectic background in engineering, entrepreneurship/business, elite athlete, martial art and human potential; Soul Ongoiba has been able to reinvent himself multiple times and wants to help people do the same. I truly believe, that everybody deserve to live their best life…Don’t let anybody or any event beat you down so you would give up on yourself or your dreams!! You are here to manifest your glory and your magnificence that was bestowed upon you by the universe and its creator. Don’t waste it!! Your life Matters!!! Live Your Power with Purpose and Passion..

Do you believe you can change your Destiny?

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