Your Ultimate Freedom is Closer than You Think!!!
True Freedom stem from two fundamentals.
Your Emotional Integrity & Your Mental Clarity!!!
A lack of action, any doubt or any shortage of human generosity in daily endeavors can be traced to two basic fears; the fear that we’re not enough, and so that we won’t be loved.
Human conditions are bound to these two basic fear, rooted into our human experience; mainly starting from the fact that human being have one the longest period of being taking care from birth till the “independent stage”- which is usually puberty in most society(Women with their first menstruation, reach “womanhood” and men in traditional society have had circumcision or initiation to manhood”). The fact is that birds or different animals have their survival edge given by nature, whether it be, feather, fur or camouflage ability with cameleo for example.
For us Human, our evolutionary advantage is love. As babies we feel the need and urge to “embody”, “mimic” what we interpret and perceive as necessary(regarding a specific way of being,acting) to our caregivers eyes.
In plain term, We got to be a “certain way” so that our caretakers “accept us ” and love us . As it is, during our imprint stage(3-7 years old roughly), we develop those beliefs about the way we “ought to be”, to deserve our caretakers love. When and If we don’t meet those criteria, the feeling of not being adequate is born!!! Here’s the root cause of that fear that we’re not enough!! which is in every human being to some degree.
To uncover yours, I found one of Tony Robbins question technique useful.
1-Identify who’s love do you “crave” the most(among your caregivers – is it your father , your mother? Who raised you during those early years?
2- Who did you have to be in order to be “accepted and taken care “ by that parent or caretaker? Did you have to be funny? complaining? cry?etc…
When you uncover your ways of being, you are on your way to the first step of Emotional Integrity, which is to decipher your basic fear “of not being enough” specific to you. Ultimately part of the catharsis is to realize that it was our own interpretation and that now that we’re grown, we can choose freely our own way of being.
That Catharsis should lead us to understand that “We’re enough”.
That’s the awareness and first stage in the emotional integrity foundation,
The second step in that first stage is to build on that knowledge through different avenues and practices. The Goal is to embody and vibrate Wholeness; Vibrate and resonate the knowingness,(the deep level of trust, or belief or even faith) that you are enough.
Different tools exist for that. whether it is through prayers, meditation, hypnotism, the basic element is to resonate wholeness, which is the recognition that you are enough and whole. It’s the first declaration of your ultimate freedom, knowing that there’s no wrong fact yourself. Each “new” moment reveals a new and different information to you about yourself in order for you to evolve to the next best version of you.
WHOLENESS IS THE KEY TO YOUR EMOTIONAL INTEGRITY!!!
The second stage for you to reach ultimate freedom is Mental Clarity!!!
That clarity is built upon the first stage of your knowledge of being whole.
The paradox of our human experience is embedded in the duality we face in this plane of existence. If we’re whole, why do we still have desires? Having desire imply a “lack”, a need for something we don’t have isn’t it? Contrary to some practices that restrict desire, I’m NOT a proponent that desire should be “eliminated”, becasue that would mean that I’m denying my humanity nature. I Do think tough that desire should be managed. We shouldn’t let desire manage us because that desire can consume us.
This is why, mental clarity is needed. Part of that mental clarity is to understand our desires, AND yet still be able to “let go of them”. not be attached to them. That’s a paradox isn’t it?
That can be done with this following duality mind frame:
1-I’m whole, Since I’m a manifestation of the unity. it’s like a drop of ocean knowing that it’s part of the ocean itself. Nothing can be taking away, because that drop of ocean has the same property of the bigger ocean;it’s just a matter of degree
2-Holding the belief that the desire is already within ourselves otherwise we wouldn’t have that desire being generated in ourselves. It’s a state of mind that requires “trust” or faith.
That clarity of mind , which is build upon the belief that we’re whole, accelerate our vibration and frequency of being that “manifestation” of the desire we want to be, have or do . At this point we all get tested becasue of the duality in our human experience.
It’s basically the clarity of wanting something you don’t have yet “manifested” in this plane BUT at the same time knowing that you already have receive that want/desire becasue you’re whole.
Part of that mental clarity is to be able to navigate the trials and the learning UNTIL the events unfold themselves before our eyes till we get the manifestation in this plane of what we are desiring.
The mindset is this: Acceptance of where we’re at, letting go, AND at the same time what am I learning along the way to get to my final destination?
The balance between the EMOTIONAL INTEGRITY AND THE MENTAL CLARITY GIVES YOU ULTIMATE FREEDOM!!!
ULTIMATE FREEDOM IS REVEALED AS WE learn to Dance between BEING and BECOMING!!!!
THAT’S THE WAY OF THE MASTER’S!!!
YOU CAN DO IT!!! MASTERY IS IN YOU!!!
LIVE YOUR POWER WITH PURPOSE & PASSION!!